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Helle everyone, it’s the third time to deliver my speech here.Very glad to see your all guys.The last few days i have been thinking what am I going to talk today.I found it’s a hard to select an interesting topic.At first Iwant to share something about love ,butit’s a big topic and I’m afraid I can’t handle it.Then I thought why not to talk about break up? Maybe it’s more interesting.So today my topic is how to break up peacefully.Ibelieve there must be quite a lot people in this claroom are not single and dating with someone.We have grown up and it feel good to experience this.No one can deny that the love is romantic and beautiful.We cherish it and enjoy it.However, as the time goes by, we maybe tired of this relationship, and for some reason we want to break up.So when the goodbye day is coming ,what should we do, and how to break up peacefully? I have some useful advice to share about you.First, choose a good place.Break up in the right environment is important.You should choosesome place quiet and peaceful where you two can talk freely without disturb.Oh, I forget to remind , you’d better say this things face to face.Some of you may want to break up on the telephone or send an text or a letter.I don’t suggest this.Because this methods may cause misunderstanding and make both of you lose control.So it neceary to choose a good place to to make sure you can clarify your idea clearly.Try to communicate from your heart.Try to break
the news as gently as you can.Second, be honest.Everybody deserved to know the truth.Maybe you find he or she is not the right one for you.Maybe you find you have feelings for another person.But no matter what your reasons are, just be honest.Just say what you want to say.Someone want to choose to tell lie rather than the truth.They may think the truth is so true, and it will hurt the other so much.But is it fair for your partner if you make up a story to cheat him or her? It is complete wrong way.So trust me.Show your sincere and be honest.Third,try to control your emotions.Remember no matter what happens, remain to be calm.Maybe you will hear something hurt and unbelievable.Take a deep breath, control yourself and then calm down.Force yourself to be emotionally strong.Focus on the positives.Focus on the good memories and the good times you've shared.Crying is good but crazy is not the way.Try to be tough and never show your weak.Finally , the most important thing is learn to forget and forgive.No one is perfect.We should not only see the other people’s mistake.Nowthat the relationship is over.We both should be responsible for the final result.Just like we responsible for the love before.We all do something wrong.let bygones be bygones, we should looking forward and move on.Forgive each other and forget the bad things.Try to remain friends.Promise to keep in touch.Promise to respect each other forever.Here are my suggestions, remember? First, choose a good place.Second, be honest.Third,try to control your emotions.Finally , learn to forget and forgive.Those tips may help you to deal with the breaking stuff.Don't let it end painfully.Don't let the hurt continue.Just go on as friends.No matter what your end is.Wish your all guys have a happy ending.